OKAY GUYS I HAVE DECIDED TO DO A THING
AND I DO MEAN EVERYONE
WHO REBLOGS THIS UNTIL THE 20TH
GETS A CHRISTMAS GIFT MADE BY ME
ACCORDING TO THEIR BLOGS
You don’t need to do ANYTHING ut reblog ! Seriously i don’t care if you follow me or not. i WILL make EVERYONE something !
So yay !
Here is a list of all the things a person could do only if they were single. If you have any ideas please send them my way! I would love to hear it.
Sorry this list isn’t so intricate, i have only been single for a few days but so far I think I am doing ok? ok maybe not. SOMEONE GIVE ME IDEAS!
Sometimes we go through things in life we don’t understand, sometimes we go through things in life that are great and some not so great but at the end of it all you realize there was something refreshing to learn in life.
My fiance and I ended it, I broke up with him Saturday night. Alot of people asked me if HE broke up with me, and I kept getting shocked like why would they think that. Then I finally asked and they said “Because you never stand up for yourself and end things unless you have someone else on your mind.” This time I have to agree with them, normally I don’t end things unless I feel someone else is better suited. But this time they were wrong.
I have no one else, I am not looking for someone else. i am just learning to be content with myself because who knows I may end up with just myself. I still love the man I broke up with and the reasoning for me ending it in a short way of saying things is that I love him so much that I had to let him go to help him realize his own potential and learn to grow on his own and be strong because frankly he wasn’t all that great at being strong for the both of us and he still has a lot to grow up on. I hope one day he comes to me mature, and understanding of why I did what I did but if he doesn’t and things are done for good at least I know I did what I did out of love for him and I won’t regret later on in life not ending things and being in a relationship with someone who wasn’t ready to be married.
Being alone can be a scary thing and it can hurt badly, I have cried many times but through it I have also learned alot about myself. I have never really been single for a period of time. I have always been the kind of person to be in a relationship but not this time. I am actually taking the time to do the things you can’t do when you are single. Which is why I am going to be posting next a list of things you can do as a single person that someone who was in a committed relationship couldn’t do (although I do miss being with the man.)
It’s said that absence makes the heart grow fonder but when your gone for so long and you run over my heart in the process its hard for it to even grow, let alone be fonder.
I fall in love, then I fall out of love, then I meet the one only once we are starting to settle down everything around us starts to crumble and then I am left feeling hurt and rejected, my rejection turns into anger and revenge, and then he is awoken to the ways he has been treating me.
Sounds about right? Right?!
I Love the guy I am with but at the same time I don’t think I can take much more. I know i keep saying this but I dont go into detail or don’t let you guys know what is up as to why I would feeling this whirlwind of emotions. So here it is in brief bullets.
Now you understand why I am mad. The next time other than tomorrow I would be able to see him would be December 22. We haven’t seen each other face to face since the first weekend of November.
“Live your life like you’re 80 looking back on your teenager years. You know if your dad calls you at eight in the morning and asks if you want to go out for breakfast. As a teenager you’re like no, I want to sleep. But as an eighty year old looking back you have that breakfast with your dad. It just little things like that, that helped me when I was a teenager in terms of making choices you won’t regret.”